A few years ago, my mom and I were on a rare trip together. Our relationship had been pretty difficult all along. Finally, after more than 50 years, I was struck by a realization of what it was like for her to have me as her daughter! I felt remorseful about...
We wanted to share with you a short message from one of our previous students of UOS. You may or may not know Mark Silver (UOS grad and founder of Heart of Business, Inc.), but he learned Sufi Spiritual Healing techniques and applied them to his personal life and in...
Here is a Sufi saying – Mind speaks to mind. Heart speaks to heart. Soul speaks to soul. What is meant by this and why does it matter? Communication happens on different levels and it can either be love-centered or love-deprived. Your level of communication...
Every day we are involved in conversations where we think we know what is being said, and yet we hear it differently from the way the speaker meant it. We don’t generally know that this is happening. We usually just take away the meaning we heard and leave it at...
Did you ever wake up one day and find yourself “out of love” with someone? This can happen not only with our spouses, but also with co-workers, friends and other relationships. What is it that destroys love and connection? Over the past forty plus years of...
If I’ve learned one key to loving relationships over the last forty plus years, it’s definitely this – You can’t be right and be in the love at the same time. It’s simply not possible. Why? Let me explain with a little scenario between a...